What kind of lover are you becoming?

Eight quick questions, a result that actually sounds like you, and a few emails from me written just for it.

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Maybe you're kissing her and your mind's still running.
Maybe part of you is checking how it's going, the whole time.
Maybe you want to reach for her, but you hold back.
Maybe it's good, really good, and you've got a feeling there's more.

Every one of those is a different kind of lover, and each has somewhere beautiful to go.

The four lovers

The Grounded Lover.Out of your head, into your body, and right there with her.
The Present Lover.All of you in the room, feeling it, with nothing to prove.
The Bold Lover.Your wanting finally out in the open, and she loves it.
The Explorer.The rest of the map, and how much further it all goes.

How it works

  • Eight questions, about two minutes.
  • Your result shows up straight away.
  • Then a few emails from me over the next few days, written for your result.
  • Your individual answers stay private and aren't stored.

Find out which lover you're becoming

Yani, a calm close portrait in a rust-coloured robe, palm trees soft behind her

Who's asking

I'm Yani, and for 8+ years I've been guiding men into their bodies and into deeper intimacy, through tantric bodywork, 1:1 coaching, workshops and my online course Bedroom Skills for men. Trained in tantric massage and tantra therapy, ISTA Levels 1 and 2, and trauma-informed work for tantra professionals.

Every man I work with starts somewhere different. This quiz shows you where you are, so I can meet you right there 🔥

So much love,Yani

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